I HATE Arguments

Stupid Blogger. I was planning to blog this incident but it was down yesterday, making this entry a bit belated. But i guess one can imagine the sianess it caused me if i was still going to blog it now like more than 24 hours after the thing.

Anyway Tuesday was supposed to be a super good day with the singing and other stuff but it was spoilt by one moment of hot-headedness from me. Didn't know why it escalated but i think its just my love for argument ba. Anyway, i just don't like the way people like to sian others by just saying "Okay, its my fault" to bring an argument to an end because it simply implies that "I dunno what the f*** u r talking about but i just don't want to continue arguing with u anymore and if it feels happy for u to win, then i shall just let u win and satisfy ur ego" I mean thats not what an argument is supposed to be about. An argument is for thrashing out and understanding each other's view point and not just about winning and losing. Come on dude, we are past the stage of childish arguing and win or lose. Anyway, it was that i was just too tired to continue arguing at 4 am in the morning when he obviously can't see my view point, there was no thrid party around to arbitate and my words were getting stuffled. So i allowed him to say those irritating few words and concluded the argument.

Anyway, it was a sort of a bad way to conclude a beautiful day where i had a wonderful singing session and did something that i had never done before.